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Kinks & Drinks Episode # 33 (05/16/26)
“Remote Toy Play and How to Keep It Safe!”
Deciding if Remote Toy play is for you can be a daunting task, especially when dealing with new apps and the unknown. Believe me I want you to be safe when playing remotely so there are some precautions you can take. Remote Mutual Masturbation and Shadowbation are both very hot ways to spice up your personal pleasure time! If you take the steps I mention in this podcast to keep yourself safe then the sky is the limit! Be adventurous and always keep an open mind to new things and possibilities. Below are some good links to make this less stressful. Next week we After Party the Stroke-A-Thon. You do not want to miss this I will have some prizes for 3 lucky listeners!
Links:
How To Use Lovense Toys Via a Link (URL).
Lovense Connection Guide.
Setup Guide for Lovense Browser & Built-in Extension using a smartphone/tablet and Windows PC.
Lovense Remote: Live Control.
Proton Mail: Secure email that protects your privacy.
Lovense Toys: Check out all the possibilities.
Radio-Active
Take your Masturbation time to the next level by making it “Radio-Active”! Yes a play on the words but really gets the point across huh? So this is a very refreshing drink not unlike how you feel when you finish having some fun self-pleasure. You start off with 2 oz of Absolute Lime Vodka, 2 oz Midori, 1/2 oz Fresh Lime Juice, 1/2 oz Fresh Lemon Juice, put all this into a mixing glass will Ice stir gently then strain into a Rocks Glass filled with fresh Ice, Top with Club Soda and gently stir again to ensure it is mixed together. You then garnish with a Cherry and Lime Wheel and enjoy!
Podcast Episode # 32 “Remote Toy Play and How to Keep It Safe!”
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Kinks & Drinks Episode # 32 (05/09/26)
“Spotting a Fraud: Wanna Bee Dom / Dommes”
There is nothing worse than a “Fake Ass” Dom or Domme. Knowing how to spot them is crucial. Not only are they a “Rip Off” but they can be very detrimental to your well being. They are dangerous and can even be physically and mentally abusive. This episode my Bestie Goddess Meshelle and I exposed these frauds for what they are and even gave you a little knowledge on how to “sniff” them out yourself! As the saying goes knowing is half the battle. We cannot say this enough when entering into a Dominant / Submissive relationship communications is the most vital element you must seek. Below are some good links that will help you spot those Wanna Bees! Next week we will dive into Remote Toy Play and how to keep it safe!
Links:
Real Dom Vs. Fake Dom: 9 Ways To Tell The Difference.
BDSM Red Flags: Spotting Fake Doms & Subs.
8 WAYS TO 8 WAYS TO IDENTIFY A FAKE IDENTIFY A FAKE DOM.
Fake
No one likes a fake unless it is a Moonshine-Bourbon Cherry Coke drink of the week! As we call out the Fake Doms and Dommes it is always good to have something to get that bad taste out of your mouth that these fraudulent fucks leave…So get you 1 1/2 oz of Midnight Moon 80 proof Moonshine, 1 1/2 oz of Bulleit Mesquite Smoked Malt Bourbon and some Cherry Coke! In a Coke Glass filled with Ice Combine the Moonshine, Bourbon and Cherry Coke and stir gently until mixed and chilled. Garnish with some Midnight Moon Moonshine Cherries and you will be able to spot those Wanna Bees from a mile away!
Podcast Episode # 32 “Spotting a Fraud: Wanna Bee Dom / Dommes”
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Kinks & Drinks Episode # 31 (05/02/26)
“Choosing Lingerie for Sexual Encounters”
Choosing your lingerie for sex is not just about the garments you pick out it is how you wear them and the attitude you bring with your choices. I am a vintage lingerie girl and lean more towards that end of the fashion world. That is not to say that is the only lingerie I enjoy wearing. There is something to be said about finding some cheap lingerie that can be ripped off your body! I am also a big fan of wearing an elegant lingerie set and showing my partner how I can turn that into a very slutty look just by the attitude I bring with it! Find the style that speaks to you and make it your own! Next week we will go deep into “Spotting a Fraud: Wanna Bee Dom / Dommes” there are tell tell signs of someone that thinks or wants to be something they are not!
Links:
Secrets In Lace.
NYLON NOSTALGIA VINTAGE LINGERIE.
Lost Girls.
Dotties Delights.
Unique Vintage.
That Th-Thong
There are so many options when it comes to sexy lingerie. But there are very few garments that invoke the response like a Th-Thong! This silky smooth treat will get your heart racing and your inhibitions lowered. 2 oz of Don Julio Blanco Tequila, 1 cup of Fresh Pineapple / Strawberry Juice, 2 cups of fresh chilled strawberries, 2 cups fresh chilled chunked pineapples, 1/2 cup of froze Greek Yogurt. Combine all this into a blender and blend until silky smooth and that perfect shade of pink! Pour into a Milk Shake Glass, garnish with a strawberry and a Pineapple wedge. Enjoy with your partner.
Podcast Episode # 31 “Choosing Lingerie for Sexual Encounters”
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Kinks & Drinks Episode # 30 (04/25/26)
“Increasing Your Sexual Stamina and Performance”
Stroke-A-Thon and Masturbation May is upon us! Are you ready to try to out-last all of your fellow strokers? This won’t be as easy as you think. 15 Sexy ass Mistresses are going to be in your ear so you better listen to this podcast more than once! Not a stroker but still a joke in the bedroom? Well this episode can help you as well! There are so many factors that go into increasing your longevity and performance so definitely check out the links below! Take-aways here; increase your sexual stamina and performance through practice, stress relief, diet & exercise and removing internal psychological barriers. You can get in your own way just by the way you think of sex! Next week is “Choosing Lingerie just for Sexual Encounters”. So slide on over to the show next week for some real “Silky and Erotic” fun!
Links:
How to increase a man’s sexual stamina (Google).
Healthline: 9 Ways to Improve Male Sexual Performance.
Gameday Men’s Health: How to Increase Sex Stamina for Men.
VinMec Heathcare System: Enhancing Sexual Performance: 45 Tips on Exercises and Foods.
Sexual Double Standard
When you are trying to increase your stamina, performance and longevity it is so important to remember to take it “Slow an’ Easy”! So this should help remind you to slow it down and think of your partner even if it is just your hand! Start off with 1 1/2 oz of Devils River Agave Bourbon, 1 oz of Mezcal, 1/4 oz of Agave Nectar, and 2-3 dashes of Angostura Bitters. Combine the Bourbon, Mezcal, agave nectar and bitters into a mixing glass filled with Ice. Stir for 20–30 seconds until well-chilled and mixed thoroughly. Garnish with Brandied Cherry wrapped with Orange peal. This take on an “Old Fashion” will be a refreshing start to your new and improved sexual performance!
Podcast Episode # 30 “Increasing Your Sexual Stamina and Performance”
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Kinks & Drinks Episode # 29 (04/18/26)
“Why is The Stigma Against Gay Men Higher than Against Lesbians?”
“Act Locally to Change Globally” Yes you read that correctly that is how you start change! You have the power to start the conversation in your circle, I promise if you do it will make a difference. This topic is all about acceptance and tolerance and what we can do to change our “World”. Goddess Meshelle and Ms. Bianca joined me and gave such great advice and insights into not only “why” it is so but “how” to move forward and start closing the divisive nature of the Patriarchal Leadership. Next week’s show is all about getting you ready for the Stroke-A-Thon! As well as helping you increase your longevity and performance in the bedroom!
Sexual Double Standard
Go ahead and make it a “Double”! When It comes to “Sexual Double Standards” it may take two of these to keep your frustration levels at bay. This concoction makes two drinks so enjoy. 2 1/2 oz of Sailor Jerry Spiced Rum, 2 1/2 oz Bulleit Rye Whiskey, 5 oz Orange-Pineapple blend juice and 4-5 dashes of Orange Bitters. Fill Large Shaker with all the ingredients and shave vigorously until mixed and chilled. Strain into 2 Rocks Glasses filled with fresh ice, garnish and let those nerves start to calm down!
Podcast Episode # 29 “Why is The Stigma Against Gay Men Higher than Against Lesbians?”
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Kinks & Drinks Episode # 28 (04/11/26)
“My Birthday Bash: Mistresses Confess Their Naughty Secrets”
Boy oh boy did I have a fun Birthday! I was joined by four of my favorite Mistresses! Goddess Meshelle, Ms. Kay Marie, Ms. Bianca and towards the end Ms. Harper crashed the party! This show as all about HOT Confessions! All of us shared stories about hot topics we have all engaged in. It got very spicy, you know how us ladies get hehe! This is one for the books extra guests meant extra stories hehe! Next week we are going to tackle a controversial topic…”Why is The Stigma Against Gay Men Higher than Against Lesbians?” I will also talk about Bi-sexuality and the bias there as well.
Links:
Test Tubes and Rack.
Truth Serum
A little “Truth Serum” goes a long way to loosen those lips! However, with our Mistresses it does not take much to get them sharing all kinds of naughty stories! This is a fun Test Tube drink basically little shots! You pour 2 cups of Absolut Vanilla Vodka, 1 cup of Mozart Chocolate Cream Liqueur and 1/2 cup of Grenadine into a large measuring cup. Stir until thoroughly combined. Poor into Test Tubes (will make approximately 25 one ounce Test Tubes) then chill in the fridge until ready to serve.
Podcast Episode # 28 My Birthday Bash: Mistresses Confess Their Naughty Secrets
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Kinks & Drinks Episode # 27 (04/04/26)
“Sensory Deprivation the Art of Sensation Control”
What is Sensory Deprivation? A sensory deprivation fetish involves the deliberate, consensual reduction or removal of stimuli from one or more senses—sight, sound, touch, or smell—to enhance sexual arousal, trust, or psychological intensity. As pointed out by Kali…Sensory Deprivation is a form of “Mind Fuck”. Such a great way to put it! I believe that any sensory play should start with restraining your partner, this goes for Deprivation as well. I enjoy taking the senses away one by one and seeing where that leads to…I will tell you where it leads, to an erotic, exciting and sexual fulfilling session! Next week is my Birthday and it is going to be a free for all so to speak I have at least one guest Mistress and we are going to be telling some hot secret sex stuff (hehe)!
Links:
What is Sensory Deprivation Fetish?
autostraddle: Sensory Deprivation BDSM for Beginners.
Lovehoney-Sensory Deprivation: What Is It and How Can It Improve Sex?
foreo.com mysa-Feel More With Less: Increase Your Pleasure With Sensory Deprivation.
Yahoo!Life Netdoctor-How to use sensory deprivation for sexual kicks.
Overcome By Darkness
I love this drink because it visually tells the story of a very important aspect of Sensory Deprivation…Sight…the dark notes of the Rum over take the light of the ginger beer! Just like the drink you will be “Overcome By Darkness”! Fill a highball glass with ice. Pour in 5oz ginger beer (and optional 1/2 oz of Lime Juice). Float the Gosling’s Dark 151 Rum on top by slowly pouring it over the back of a bar spoon. Garnish with Lime Wheel. The drink is meant to be stirred just before drinking, combining the spicy ginger beer with the sweet, caramel notes of the rum. As the song says “When all is lost to you inside. When all the darkness takes the light. The ritual, it has begun.
Podcast Episode # 27 Sensory Deprivation the Art of Sensation Control
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Kinks & Drinks Episode # 26 (03/28/26)
“Bootblacking & Shampooing Two Fetishes that are off the Beaten Path!”
Bootblacking & Shampooing are two fetishes you do not see as often as a lot of the other more “Main Stream” fetishes so this was two fun topics! I defined Paraphilia, Retifism and Trichophilia. Bootblacking is way more than being a shoeshine boy, it is a very in depth form of BDSM service. So many things go into providing that service as well. I even discussed the “tools of the trade”. Shampooing on the other hand is really not much of a BDSM fetish it is more of a Sensual Fetish. Sensation Play is the name of the game for Shampooing! When exploring Shampooing always implement as many sensory components as you can, this will make the experience even more fulfilling. Smell, touch sound and sight should all be used. Next week Kali came through with another great topic, we will taking senses away! “Sensory Deprivation the Art of Sensation Control” episode # 27.
Links:
What is paraphilia?
What is retifism?
What is the fetish of bootblacking?
Boots! An introduction to boot worship and bootblacking.
Boot Werks-Boot Blacking: The Ritual of Care, Devotion, and Leather Worship.
Underground Leather-Bootblacking and Etiquette.
What is trichophilia?
The fetish of shampooing.
What is Albutophilia?
The Girl with the Shampoo Fetish.
What is ASMR?
Leather & Lather
Wham-bam, thank you, ma’am. She wants to do ya (hair). Get your boots on! A little Rob Zombie to set the mood for this week’s drink. How about something different…a little black vodka and custom foam for a toping! We start off with 2 oz of Blavod Black Vodka (gives it that color we are wanting), 1 oz of Fresh Lime Juice, 1/2 oz of Simple Syrup, 4-6 Black Berries muddled and 1/2 oz of Egg Whites (For Froth) then top with Club Soda and add the Froth and you have a great Leather & Lather drink! (See graphic for detailed mixing instructions). I know when you seen egg whites the first thought was ewwww not eggs in my mixed drink…oh sweetie it does not add any flavor to the drink just effects. Gives us that Lather we needed to combine the two fetishes into one drink!
Podcast Episode # 26 Bootblacking & Shampooing Two Fetishes that are off the Beaten Path!
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Kinks & Drinks Episode # 25 (03/21/26)
“15 Kinks to Spice Things Up in Your Sex Life”
15 Kinks to Spice Things Up in Your Sex Life was the topic this week! It was a hour packed episode of information that if you did not catch live you will want to listen to this show. If you listened live you might want to listen again to make sure you did get all the fun stuff I threw at ya! I packed in as many kinks as I could fit in an hour long show! This was the last show on Podbean, starting next week Kinks & Drinks will be moving to Discord Enchantrix Radio Channel the link to this new Channel will be below with all my links from this week! Our first show on Discord Enchantrix Radio is going to combine two Fetishes from tonight (Requests) from Kali and Potato…Bootblacking and Shampooing so join me and see how devious I can make both of these fetishes!
Links:
Elite Daily: 50 Kinks to Try For a Spicier Sex Life.
BDSM Vampire Gloves With Spikes.
Black Japanese Clover Clamps.
Discord Enchantrix Radio Channel.
Sin
It comes down to this, your kiss, your fist. And your strain, it gets under my skin. Within, take in, the extent of my “Sin” I am all about giving the “Big Middle Finger” to our puritan society! Thus the name of our drink this week. It is as stout as it is delicious just like I love my sex! With 2 oz of Sierra Norte Whiskey, 1 oz Cointreau, 1 oz Fresh Lime Juice, 1/2 oz of Simple Syrup and 1/4 tsp of food grade charcoal (to make it black as Sin) this drink will having you willfully wanting to break out of all those societal shackles that has kept you bound for too long! Embrace the Kinks and learn to enjoy all that sex has to offer you!
Podcast Episode # 25 15 Kinks to Spice Things Up in Your Sex Life!
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Kinks & Drinks Episode # 24 (03/14/26)
“Mutual Masturbation with Your Hybrid Mistress pt 2”
We picked up right where we left off last week! My Bestie Goddess Meshelle joined me to continue our discussion on making Mutual Masturbation as hot and enjoyable as you can! Goddess Meshelle went into setting the mood and changing your positions to increase your partners visual pleasures. I talked about sensations while you are enjoying yourselves, and making each time an “Event” not ever thinking it should be a quicky. I also discussed toy combinations that will enhance the experience for you and your partner check out the audio there are so many things that will make your Mutual Masturbation so much more exciting! Next week’s topic will be “15 Kinks to Spice Things Up in Your Sex Life”
Links:
Women’s Health: Here’s How To Try Mutual Masturbation (And Why You Should)?
Tips for Maximizing Pleasure During Mutual Masturbation.
Bad Girl’s Bible–Mutual Masturbation: 9 Tips To Make It Crazy Hot For Both Of You.
Why She Wants to Watch You Masturbate.
LIBERATOR Sex Furniture.
14 Types Of Male Orgasms And How To Achieve Them.
Lovense Gravity.
Lovense Hyphy.
Krista and Meshelle’s Nay Nay VaJay Jay (Pussy Free Life).
More toys you may enjoy!
Lovense Lush Anal (Brand New).
Lovense Spinel.
Lovense Mission 2.
Lovense Solace Pro.
Lovense Edge 2.
Lovense Max 2.
Lovense Gush 2.
Lovense Hush 2.
Lovense Ridge.
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Dirty Mind
I just called to hear you breathe. Whisper in my ear, Tell me everything I need to hear. I’ve satisfied my appetite. Me and my dirty mind. Been working overtime! Ok now that I have your attention! hehe Dirty Mind is a drink that will stimulate those nasty dark thoughts that fuel a good Mutual Masturbation Event! This delicious concoction starts with 2 oz of Pappy Van Winkle 20 year, 1/2 oz of Cherry Syrup, 2 dashes of Angostura Bitters and top with Cherry Coke! Gives that Old Soda Shop treat an Adult make over!
Podcast Episode # 24 Mutual Masturbation with Your Hybrid Mistress pt 2!
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Kinks & Drinks Episode # 23 (03/07/26)
“Mutual Masturbation with Your Hybrid Mistress”
If you can’t please yourself who can you please? Mutual Masturbation is more than just flicking your bean or stroking your cock! My Bestie Goddess Meshelle joined me and added some fun ideas of her own! We discussed in person play, distance play and remote toy play. I added a variation of Mutual Masturbation that is a Kristaism; I am going to give it a name here! Shadowbation, that is when you use a Lovense toy and give control to someone and they give you control of theirs. You must leave the house and be in public and let the fun begin! Unfortunately or maybe fortunately you decide we were only able to scratch the surface of this topic so we decided to do a part two next week!
Links:
Women’s Health: Here’s How To Try Mutual Masturbation (And Why You Should)?
Tips for Maximizing Pleasure During Mutual Masturbation.
Bad Girl’s Bible–Mutual Masturbation: 9 Tips To Make It Crazy Hot For Both Of You.
Lovense Lush Anal (Brand New).
Lovense Spinel.
Lovense Gravity.
Lovense Mission 2.
Lovense Solace Pro.
Lovense Edge 2.
Lovense Hyphy.
Lovense Max 2.
Lovense Gush 2.
Lovense Hush 2.
Lovense Ridge.
Krista and Meshelle’s Nay Nay VaJay Jay (Pussy Free Life).
**Some of the links on this blog may be affiliate links, which means I may earn a commission if you click through and make a purchase. This comes at no additional cost to you and helps support the content I provide.**
She Bop
When I say “She Bop” you know exactly what I have on my mind! Yes indeed a lot of “Button Play”! So this tropical delight is 1oz Malibu Rum, 1 oz Absolut Peach Vodka, 1 oz Orange Juice and 1 oz of Cranberry Juice topped with Sprite! You put everything but the Sprite in a Shaker filled with fresh ice and shake the hell out of it don’t be a pussy, shake it like you beat it with a little vigor lmao! Strain it into a Rocks glass filled with fresh ice and garnish with a mint sprig and orange wheel. Drink before and after you Mutually Masturbate with that hot someone!
Podcast Episode # 23 Mutual Masturbation with Your Hybrid Mistress!
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Kinks & Drinks Episode # 22 (02/28/26)
“The Difference Between Trigger Words and Words that are a Fetish Themselves”
First off let me tell you just how sorry I am for the delay in getting this posted! The planets aligned with our moon and Mercury thought it would be funny to crash my computer! But you can’t keep a good freak down so without further ado here we go! The lovely Addy requested we talk about “Trigger Words” and Words that are Fetishes in themselves. Trigger words always invoke an emotional response. Where as a Fetish word is a word that describes a fetish…Fetishes and Fetish words are often Trigger words as well. We also discussed how a Trigger can be a smell, Taste and even a sound. A trigger can be just about anything that makes you hot and bothered! Our next show is going to take us down a more sensual path…Mutual Masturbation! The things I enjoy about it and how I get the very most out of it for you and me!
Links:
What are sexual trigger words?
Psychology of sexual trigger words.
Sexual Power Words.
Krista’s Panties
Exploring your Triggers can make you “Plunge Deeper” into that subconscious place you won’t admit exists…well at least not until you are Triggered! This is a simple drink but a very good one that I hope will one day cause a trigger of your own! The 2 oz of Crown Royal with the 1 oz of Peach Vodka adds a very memorable taste, and when you top it with fresh Orange Juice you will certainly have a trigger worthy experience later on if you decide to try this drink again…Thoughts of all those naughty desires will come rushing back!
Podcast Episode # 22 The Difference Between Trigger Words and Words that are a Fetish Themselves!
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Kinks & Drinks Episode # 21 (02/21/26)
“Panties! Something Fun For Everyone!”
Panties and all the fetishes that go with them! So many styles, materials and ways to enjoy them! Panties are not just for women, “sissies”, panty bois or even my “special girls” no no no! Men can get just as much enjoyment out of them as anyone! Tell me one thing that is hotter than a nice butt in a pair of shiny silky panties! Ok I know there is something that someone will come up with but damn it this is my world I am living in! The live show I shared several pics of me in my panties…but the only place you can see those pics are here! I am now adding a PDF version with pics of the General Chat during my shows! So if you want to see me showing my ass that is where you can find them! Next week’s show will be all about the difference between “Trigger Words” and “Words that are a Fetish Themselves”, this is for you Addy!
Links:
Wikipedia Panty Fetish.
Types of Panty Fetishes.
The Allure Of Lingerie: A Deep Dive Into Panty Fetishes.
Psychology of Panty Fetishes.
Krista’s Panties
When the topic is something as fun and silky as Panties, I had to come up with a drink that would be just as silky as “Krista’s Panties”! So what I came up with was a Rum, Kahlua, Chocolate Cream Liqueur concoction. Just one sip and you will think you are drink a sweet satin pair of my panties lol! If you want an orgasm in your mouth but with out the work of sucking it out this dessert treat is just for you! This drink could also be made with some coffee if that is your thing, just cut the amount of Heavy Cream in a half and put that amount of coffee in its place. I hope you enjoy and be decadent!
Podcast Episode # 21 Panties! Something Fun For Everyone!
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Kinks & Drinks Episode # 20 (02/14/26)
“Ruined Orgasms: Might NOT be What You Think!”
So many misconceptions on what a Ruined Orgasm truly is! I defined it based on what Men’s Health says then debunked that crap with a little help from Mistress Kay Marie! Unfortunately Ms. Kay Marie was unable to actually join as a speaker but had a lot to say in chat so definitely check out the transcripts. And that is not where the technical difficulties ended about 30 minutes into the show “Codbean” decided to be a dick and not let me speak anymore either! But have no fear because me Bestie Goddess Meshelle was co-hosting the show and she stepped right in and saved the show with a few more definitions and a great story from extreme cock control. After that hiccup I was able to restart the show and finish strong with a couple of my favorite techniques on Ruining and Orgasm! We also announced “The Smallest Penis in the Empire” Contest that will be a “huge” part of Micro March! Next week I will show the softer side to the “Hybrid Mistress” with a show about all things Panties!
Links:
Techniques for ruining an orgasm.
What Is a Ruined Orgasm? (Men’s Health).
What Is A Ruined Orgasm? Why Some People Love Them + How To Try (mindbodygreen).
Ruined Orgasms 101: A Playful Guide to Blowing Up the Finish Line (playfulmag.com).
The Art of the Ruin (Executive Sir).
Cruel Intensions
Oh yes the Ruined Orgasm, you know for me it starts with “Cruel Intensions”! This drink is a “Pucker” drink which means it has a sour bite to it! When deciding on this drink my good friend Ms. Kay Marie suggested that it be a good pucker drink! So I went with a Green apple Pucker with a Patron Silver Tequila kick! The De Kuyper Sour Apple Pucker give that face squinching affect that you come to love in a good Pucker drink. Add in a little Lime Juice and a touch of Agave and top with Sprite you are all set for a night filled with Ruined Orgasms!
Podcast Episode # 20 Ruined Orgasms: Might NOT be What You Think!
Kinks & Drinks Episode # 19 (02/07/26)
“Bringing Kink to the Bedroom”
Introducing new Kinks to the Bedroom and the Relationship can be a challenge if you struggle communicating with your partner. For the best results maybe be honest from the start what you sexual proclivities are. If you are already in the relationship and decide that you want to introduce something new my suggestion is still communication! Have a clear and concise idea of what you want and then just let your partner know. If you have a partner that is on the vanilla side it is always best to start a bit slower and take your time getting them warmed up to the idea so start small and work your way up! Ultimately make your kink pleasurable for your partner and your success will be exponentially greater!
Links:
What is a sexual Kink.
Best ways to introduce kink into the bedroom with your partner.
Modern Intimacy: How to Introduce Kinky Sex into the Bedroom .
A Beginner’s Guide to Sexual Kinks.
Pure Romance: How to Introduce Kink into the Bedroom.
Lovense Mini Sex Machine.
Lovense Spinel.
Lovense Lush Anal.
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The Roleplay
“Roleplay” is by far the easiest of the kinks to introduce because of all the variations of this kink. Always start of slow and build your way up. For those who are let’s say amateurs to the sexually adventurous world, learn to walk before you run. Remember for advanced kinks you and your partner needs to be on the same page and same level of kinkiness! When done right “The Roleplay” can open those doors that you thought were always going to be closed! Who knows one day you can join me on my level!
Podcast Episode # 19 Bringing Kink to the Bedroom
Kinks & Drinks Episode # 18 (01/31/26)
“The Art of Achieving a Sissigasm”
Sissygasm vs. Sissigasm (AKA Kristagasm), It is clear that the Urban Dictionary definition is not completely accurate! Our friend Mr. Mot coined the term Kristagasm which I have promptly stolen! The key difference in the Urban Dictionary and my definition is that I do not limit the orgasm to just anal stimulation! My only rule to achieving a real Sissigasm (Kristagasm) is that you can not stroke! not ever! Stroking will only lessen the experience so don’t do it! We also discussed some aspects from last week show…Sensation play while working towards that ultimate Kristagasm! A little ambiance goes a long way towards getting that true release you have been chasing!
Links:
Urban Dictionary’s incomplete vanilla definition.
Lovense Domi 2.
Lovense Edge 2.
Lovense Ridge.
Lovense Gravity.
Lovense Lapis.
Lovense Harness.
Lovense Mission 2.
Lovense Hyphy.
Lovense Lush Anal (Not mentioned on the show and it is brand new to the Lovense line.
Creamy Panties
Yours or mine? All I know is someone’s going to have “Creamy Panties” when I get done with you! Yes a super fun drink pretty much just a Strawberry Milk Shake with Bacardi Premium Rum and Absolut Strawberry Vodka added to it! Now for me those should be base ingredients for all milk shakes (the added alcohol) hehe! I know it is still cold outside but you will thank me for this drink in a few months! And it really fits the theme this week, it will cause a Kristagasm in your mouth!
Podcast Episode # 18 The Art of Achieving a Sissigasm
Kinks & Drinks Episode # 17 (01/24/26)
“Discovering the Art of Sensation Play: Overloading Your Partner’s Erogenous Zones!”
There is an art to Sensation Play. You first have to understand that Sensation Play is not just about Touch. You must also realize that taking away a sense is also a form of Sensation play, such as taking away sight and sound. This leaves your partners other senses heightened! Remember that smell and taste are very important senses when your goal is total arousal! Music can also set the mood. Over stimulation is a Sensation Play element as well, I usually recommend this as a finale not your starting point! One last thing to remember before you start make sure you have full consent from your partner, surprises are fun but not when you are dealing with Sensation Play!
Links:
8 Ways to Explore Sensation Play.
5 Senses to Heighten Sex and Intimacy.
Sensation PLay: Engage your 5 Senses During Sex.
How to Identify and Stimulate the 14 Erogenous Zones.
A Guide to Erogenous Zones: How To Find and Stimulate Them.
The O-Face
Whenever you are exploring Erogenous Zones with Sensation Play you are after the ultimate goal of getting the best “O-Face” you can from your partner! Taking your time is key to getting the reaction you desire from your partner. Do not just explore the sense of touch conquer every sense your partner has. Exploit every moan, every twitch and every jerking motion…When you have your partner begging that is when you will get that ultimate reward!
Podcast Episode # 17 Discovering the Art of Sensation Play: Overloading Your Partner’s Erogenous Zones!
Kinks & Drinks Episode # 16 (01/17/26)
“What Type of Mistress Best Suits You: A Discussion on The Different Types of Mistresses”
When you are in search of a Mistress there are so many factors you need to consider! During this show Meshelle and I with Harper from the chat portion defined different types of Mistresses and the roles they take on. Meshelle explained how she was a pleasure Masturbatrix. I explained more about what a Strict Domme is and went into some details on what a Hybrid Mistress is and why I consider myself that. The discussion then turned to how to choose your Mistress and the duties that a sub has when asking a Mistress to take him or her on. Communication and Boundaries are paramount for a successful Mistress / sub relationship!
Links:
Definition of Domme.
Definition of Pro-Domme.
Definition of Strict Domme.
Definition of Sensual Domme.
Thwack Paddle.
Sybian.
Liberator Pulse Sex Positioning Pillow and Toy Mount, Microvelvet Purple.
Magic Tentacle Dildo.
Tentacle Erotica.
Domi 2.
Edge 2.
Resistance is Pointless
“Resistance is Pointless” is not just the name of this weeks specialty drink, it is a fact when serving a Mistress. For so many giving control to a Mistress is a very hard step but the more you resist the longer it takes for you to finally see and achieve those things that you have been longing for and didn’t even know were there! Trust your Mistress and Communicate your wants and needs and set those Boundaries in the beginning of the new Relationship!
Podcast Episode # 16 What Type of Mistress Best Suits You: A Discussion on The Different Types of Mistresses
Kinks & Drinks Episode # 15 (01/10/26)
Exploring Lingerie Kinks and Fetishes
Is Lingerie a Kink or a Fetish? Well I hope you have learned it can be both and sometimes both at the same time! Whatever it is the one thing is for sure, it is amazingly fun! We discussed several types of Lingerie but you will see that the obvious winners tonight was Panties and Pantyhose & Stockings! Panties even fell into another category, sex toys! Yes you heard that right Panties can be a sex toy as well! We also discussed how layering Lingerie can be extremely erotic and stimulating! Stockings over Pantyhose is something I have been experimenting with and it is super hot. Also just try multiple layers of silky Lingerie I am sure you will find that fun as well!
Links:
Definition of Sexual Kink.
Definition of Sexual Fetish.
Artifice Products – Basic PVC underwear – Artifice Clothing.
JC Creations Men’s Corset – Case Study – Lucy’s Corsetry.
Floral Male corset vests – Brocade Men’s corset.
En Femme | Helping You Express Your Femininity.
NYLON NOSTALGIA VINTAGE LINGERIE–Fine Vintage Slips.
Secrets In Lace.
Dressed for Sex
The one thing about Lingerie that will always be a constant…When you put it on you are immediately “Dressed for Sex”! It does not matter if you think of it as a kink, a fetish or both. It is always fun to wear or to see others wear for you! Think of it this way “Sangria is a collective, and lingerie is a collection” I only wish I had written that little blurb but I didn’t but I know the person that did will read this and will get a chuckle out of it!
Podcast Episode # 15 Exploring Lingerie Kinks and Fetishes
Kinks & Drinks Episode # 14 (01/03/26)
Sexual Positions and what makes them hot!
Starting off the year right! Female controlled sexual positions! Who says sex has to be dominated by men, certainly not me or not a lot of Mistress for that matter. I shared my top 20 positions with links and illustrations. These links will be below in the order I talked about them on the show. They are also in the transcripts. We discussed how each of these positions allowed the female to take control, keep control and I also talked a bit about some personal goals and this show would not be complete with out discussing how to maintain dominance mentally over your man or subbie!
Links:
Cowgirl Position.
Collapsed Cowgirl.
Lying Cowgirl.
Squatting Cowgirl.
Rodeo or Reverse Cowgirl.
Standing Cowgirl.
Squatting Rodeo or Squatting Reverse Cowgirl.
Lap Dance.
Lap Dance 180.
Open Lap Dance.
Kneeling Lap Dance.
Cradle.
Inverted Hit From Behind.
Amazon.
Amazon 180.
Planted Amazon.
Planted Amazon 180.
Standing Amazon.
Standing Amazon 180.
Twisted Amazon.
For all of their Sex Position Check This Link Out.
Honorable Mentions:
Wrapped Cradle.
Saint.
Folded Cradle.
Planted Amazon 180
The “Planted Amazon 180” was chosen because it is just fucking hot! So why not name a drink after it! I took a pole of those in the audience tonight that had ever tried the “Amazon” position and was actually shocked no one had ever tried it or any variant of it? Well I am suggesting that if you are reading this and have not tried it put it on your sexual bucket list of things to try!
Podcast Episode # 14 Sexual Positions and what makes them hot!
Kinks & Drinks Episode # 13 (12/27/25)
2025 Remembering a Year of Naughtiness, 2026 Sexual Bucket List Items for the New Year!
Alrighty then! 2025 is in the books! We had a blast on this show. My bestie Goddess Meshelle and Goddess Demi joined me and wow the confessions and stories that were told! If you missed this show you really need to give it a listen because we had an absolute blast! I was able to give another one of my signature terms, “Crotch Pot Cooking” you will want to read the transcripts or give it a listen so you can find out what that term is all about! I think you will get a chuckle out of it! We not only told fun stories of things we encountered in 2025 but we also give you some insight on our 2026 sexual bucket list items!
Links:
Lovense Lapis.
Zac Brown Band – Let It Run.
Jinjer “Pisces”.
Fuck Puritanism
So many things in our lives are hindered by the sexually repressed. I have taken the stance of “Fuck Puritanism”! If you let these sexual prudes dictate your pleasure then well guess what you will have no pleasure! Express your sexuality as you see fit! Stop letting society set the terms of how naughty and depraved you can be in “YOUR” bedroom or whatever room you decide to get your freak on!
Podcast Episode # 13 2025 Remembering a Year of Naughtiness, 2026 Sexual Bucket List Items for the New Year!
Kinks & Drinks Episode # 12 (12/20/25)
Distance Toy Play and all the Possibilities
I had a surprise guest! Goddess Demi showed up for this fun topic. She had her subbie Demi Owns Me with her and assigned him a fun task! Every time the word toy or toys was said he had to write a sentence about one of the Mistresses. My Subbie Mot was very helpful in posting links and helping interact! Thank you Motty! We discussed the 3 best ways to connect to a Lovense Toy remotely. We also discussed how to keep your username and email safe. I told a couple of fun stories and Goddess Demi told the story of how she was convinced to buy the Domi 2. She has since then bought several more toys from Lovense!
Links:
Proton Email.
How to connect a Lovense Toy Through the App.
How to share a link for Lovense Toy Control.
How to control Lovense Toy through a Browser.
Lovense User Guides.
Lovense Gush 2.
Lovense Diamo.
Lovense Hush 2.
Lovense Max 2.
Lovense Solace Pro.
Lovense Solace.
Lovense Edge 2.
Lovense Ridge.
Lovense Calor.
Lovense Spinel.
Lovense Gravity.
Lovense Lush 4.
Lovense Domi 2.
Lovense Mini Sex Machine.
Lovense Sex Machine.
Lovense Hyphy.
Lovense Dolce.
Lovense Vulse.
Lovense Mission 2.
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Batteries-R-Included
“Batteries-R-Included” is my way of saying the Lovense line are all rechargeable via a USB connection giving you hours of fun. If you are like me though several hours may not be enough. That is why I own 2 of certain toys so that I am never without! I have mentioned that the Lovense line of toys have a motor that will amaze you. They do vibrate violently! Have fun and enjoy those remote orgasms!
Podcast Episode # 12 Distance Toy Play and all the Possibilities
Kinks & Drinks Episode # 11 (12/13/25)
Hot, Raw and Hopefully Nasty Open Forum Let’s Have Fun!
Now this episode was a lot of fun and actually learned a few things! Goddess Demi and Goddess Meshelle joined the show and wow the stories and Fetishes they shared were epic! We learned about “Warming” from Goddess Meshelle and Goddess Demi told us about her plethora Kinks she loves to indulge in. My “biggest” take away from Goddess Demi was her minimum requirement! Yes you heard her say it 9″ fellows if you do not have that well you can jack it but that is about all with her! I discussed a few of mine as well which includes Feminization, Toys, Lingerie and Heels. Check out the show below if you missed it!
Naughty Intensions
When I decided that this weeks show was going to be an Open Forum on Kinks and Fetishes, well to be honest I was full of “Naughty Intensions”. I was able to recruit two truly wonderful Mistresses to join me in sexploring some fun and exciting Kinks and Fetishes. Next week you do not want to miss out on the fun topic I have in store for you!
Podcast Episode # 11 Hot, Raw and Hopefully Nasty Open Forum Let’s Have Fun!
Kinks & Drinks Episode # 10 (12/06/25)
Orgasms and Ejaculation: The Difference Between them and Making Orgasms more Intense!
Tonight was all about learning the difference between an Orgasm and Ejaculating. Once you realize that there is a difference then you start to want the Orgasm and you want it to become as intense as you can get it! One of the key factors to a more intense orgasm is your overall health. You need to maintain a healthy lifestyle and diet. I said this part repeatedly, be Adventurous (yes I capitalized it for a reason) do not fall into a lackadaisical routine. We went over “Men’s Health–22 Ways Men Can Make Their Orgasms Even Better“. This article also had some very good related articles that you can check out as well.
Links:
Difference Between Orgasms and Ejaculation.
Things that Make an Orgasm more Intense.
Men’s Health.
Lovense Hyphy.
Lovense Solace Pro.
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Mouth Full of Jizz
The “Mouth Full of Jizz” was named for this because when dealing with an intense orgasm a good old fashion Blowjob is always a winner for getting the wow factor to a crescendo! If a blowjob does not raise the level of intensity of your orgasm then whoever is giving it is not doing a very good job and they need to refer back a couple of shows to find out what they are doing wrong!
Podcast Episode # 10 Orgasms and Ejaculation: The Difference Between them and Making Orgasms more Intense!
Kinks & Drinks Episode # 9 (11/29/25)
Voyeurism & Exhibitionism: Why Does it Turn Us On?
Wow! Now that was a lot of fun. Great topic and thank you all for the interaction in chat tonight. So we discussed terminology and turn-onology (another Ms. Krista Term)! There are just so many different ways to experience Voyeurism that you must just keep an open mind and be willing to try new things. Sometimes if you have never done something it can be a little intimidating or scary, well that is where you will find true sexual excitement. This little blurb will not get you where you need to be on knowing about this show, this is a show you MUST listen to. I even have some Krista Terms you will not hear anywhere else at the moment! (the list is in the chat transcripts)
Links:
Voyeurism the Fetish.
psychology behind voyeurism
Peepin’ at a New Fetish: Voyeurism
The Voyeur
Oh I know you love to watch! You get off watching as they have dirty, filthy and sometimes raunchy sex. You have found so many ways to enjoy being “The Voyeur” that you now think about the Exhibition aspect as well, don’t you? I know you have heard so many time that Voyeurism is perverted and socially unacceptable but that is more of a reason to enjoy it not less of one! (Evil Laugh)
Podcast Episode # 9 Voyeurism & Exhibitionism: Why Does it Turn Us On?
Kinks & Drinks Episode # 8 (11/22/25)
Sissy Humiliation, Public Humiliation Tasks and the Perfect BJ!
Thank you so much for another very interactive show! I want to thank Goddess Meshelle for co-hosting this week and of course Ms. Harper and Goddess Demi for attending and providing so much input! Goddess Meshelle and I are putting a Sissy Task Menu in the store for Black Friday check it out! I am posting the store link below. So much great input on this show all the great suggestions and ideas for being the subject of Sissy Humiliation and Public Sissy Humiliation! We finished this episode off strong with continuing our conversation on the “Perfect Blowjob”. There is so much packed in this episode check it out you won’t be sorry!
Links:
Creative Ideas for Sissy Humiliation.
More Creative Ideas for Sissy Humiliation.
Verbal Triggers for Sissies.
Blowjob Tips.
Blowjob Testimonials.
Enchantrix Empire Store.
The Public Sissy
The humiliation aspect is what this “Public Sissy” is all about. Showing your willingness to go out and get your Sissy on in public shows your Mistress just how committed you are to serving her! While you are at it I think I should give you a few tasks to do while you are out! If you are a “good girl” I may even reward you!
Podcast Episode # 8 Sissy Humiliation, Public Humiliation Tasks and the Perfect BJ!
Kinks & Drinks Episode # 7 (11/15/25)
Oral Delights, Benefits, Do’s and Don’ts
Wow! What a fun show and great topic! I want to thank everyone that attended my show tonight. Special shout out to the Mistresses in the audience tonight, Ms. Aurora and Ms. Kay Marie! And a very special shout out to my Bestie, Goddess Meshelle for Co-Hosting tonight and all her fun insights! This was a fun filled show with lots of information and laughs. We discussed the Benefits, Do’s and Don’ts to having and preforming good Oral Sex. I am posting some good links for you to check out! This information is sure to help your Oral Game!
Links:
Benefits of Oral Sex.
How do you know if you are good at oral sex?
How to improve your fellatio skills.
How to improve your Cunnilingus skills.
How to improve oral sex for you and your partner.
mot’s Oral Delight
Showing up for Oral Sex is never going to be enough! Licking and sucking aimlessly is only going to get you a frustrated partner! Get in there and down on it like there is nowhere better to be…because there isn’t! So as you enjoy “mot’s Oral Delight” be that Oral Delight for your partner!
Podcast Episode # 7 Oral Delights, Benefits, Do’s and Don’ts
Kinks & Drinks Episode # 6 (11/08/25)
Toys for Bois! The Fleshlight, Solace and the Max! And Much More!
First off let me apologize for my voice being a bit shaky, been fighting a horrible cold the last few days. I would have done this show from a hospital bed if I had too. Goddess Meshelle and Mistress Bianca joined me in this fun filled trip down the male toy rabbit hole. We had so much fun with this episode and provided so many links to a variety of toys. I am going to share some in this post so you can easily find them for yourself.
Links:
(Max 2) https://www.lovense.com/r/3k87d2
(Solace Pro) https://www.lovense.com/r/os0jnr
(Edge 2) https://www.lovense.com/r/t4l72z
(Solace Pro & Edge 2 Package) https://www.lovense.com/r/gwpxe2
(Max 2 & Edge 2 Package) https://www.lovense.com/r/0k3x3j
(Domi 2) https://www.lovense.com/r/41p6gw
(Diamo) https://www.lovense.com/r/nsuve0
(Hush 2) https://www.lovense.com/r/5dtwct
(Hyphy) https://www.lovense.com/r/awpty7
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Slip-n-Slide
These toys were made to do a lot of Slipping and Sliding! So get all lubed up, grab a “Slip-n-Slide” and let the tension go. I suggest that you never limit yourself to just one form of pleasure! Get a companion toy to go with those “Fleshlight” type of toys. Something for your P-spot will certainly hit the spot! I know you have heard me say this more than one…why choose? Have both!
Podcast Episode # 6 Toys for Bois, the Fleshlight, Solace and Max! And Much More
Kinks & Drinks Episode # 5 (11/01/25)
Femme Fatale, Hybristophilia: the attraction to the Bad Boys and Girls
After an Epic Fail, no audio at all for the listeners, I restarted the broadcast and the Podbean gremlins left me alone. I defined Hybristophilia: Attraction to someone that is a social outcast, attraction to criminals, attraction to those who are considered living outside of social norms. The Discussion led into defining a Femme Fatale and how it can apply to being an elegant sissy or woman!
The Man-Eater
What a perfect name for the specialty drink of the week, “Man-Eater”. It fits perfectly with a Femme Fatale. A “Man-Eater” only worries about societal norms when it is convenient for her. This is exactly how a Femme Fatale’s mindset would be. I believe it would be so hot to make a Sissy a Femme Fatale to do my bidding! 😉
Podcast Episode # 5 Femme Fatale: Attraction to Bad Boys & Girls
Kinks & Drinks Episode # 4 (10/25/25)
Dollification & Stepford Sissies
The always sapio sexy Ms. Becky joined me for a fun and spirited discussion on Dollification and Stepford Sissies. We defined and compared and analyzed the similarities and differences. This episode was for Tina Eren, she was bold enough to request this right after last week’s High Heel Fetish episode. Ms. Becky and I both really enjoyed researching and discovering all the nuances of these fetishes.
The Stepford Sissy
Being a Stepford Sissy just might be one of the best Sissies to be? All the pretty lingerie, the domestic feminization, and of course being that subservient girl you truly want to be! So just for all my sweet sissies out there I made you a pretty pink drink to match your pretty pink panties!
Podcast Episode # 4 Dollification & Stepford Sissy
Kinks & Drinks Episode # 3 (10/18/25)
High Heel Fetish (for Footstool)
Goddess Meshelle joined me as my special guest host. We discussed the things about the fetish that make it so very popular. This was requested by our friend Footstool. This fetish goes much further than just the way heels look on us ladies, it is also the type of heel and for what purpose we buy them for as well.
Imelda’s Heels
Every girly girl like me dreams of having a collection of heels like the famous Imelda Marcos. So I had so make a drink in her honor. With Over 3000 pairs of shoes she truly is a legend. Just having the heels is not where it ends, it is how and where you decide to show them off!
Podcast Episode # 3 High Heel Fetish
Kinks & Drinks Episode # 2 (10/11/25)
Locktober and All the Fun things about Chastity
How fun was this episode, Goddess Demi and Ms. Bianca joined me to discuss just how much fun we all think Locktober is and all the different ways to lock’em up! We talked about all the different types of devices and even had some listeners tell us about their personal journeys during the month. We even heard from some about Mental Chastity!
Haunted Chastity
Getting locked up in chastity not knowing when you might get released can be a very scary proposition. You might eve call it “Haunted Chastity”! Whether you are locked in a device, mental chastity or even an alternative form of chastity this drink will take the fear out of your situation.
Podcast Episode # 2 Locktober and Chastity
Kinks & Drinks Episode # 1 (10/04/25)
Kinks are Treats Airing out my Kinks
My very first podcast episode. I opened up the discussion with the listeners answering questions about my favorite kinks. This show was all about getting to know each other. The question came up about Kinks or Treats and I, in true Krista fashion let everyone know that I am not an either or girl. I want them both!
Kinks are Treats
Now we all know that kinks are most certainly tasty treats! And when it comes to the Drinks portion of the show it is without question a treat that will satisfy the most decerning pallet. To start of my podcast the very first drink had to be a special one. So I made a Sangria and named it appropriately “Kinks are Treats”.
Podcast Episode # 1 Kinks and Treats why Choose?
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