Looking for the Mistress of your deepest fantasies?

 

 

Looking to be dominated by a femme fatale, or sweetly coerced and pleasured?  New to femdom, and don’t know where to begin? Here are five essential Mistress styles to help find what makes your toes curl. As most of you know, I am a Hybrid Mistress, which means that I wrap all the best aspects of each type of mistress into a happy bundle called Ms. Krista. I will never try a one size fits all approach to your submissive needs, I cater to “you”! Remember, no two Mistresses are alike.

 

Hybrid Mistress "Mistress and Femdom Archetypes"

 

If one Domme doesn’t quite do it for you, that doesn’t mean you are not going to cut it with a Mistress. There are many different types of Mistresses and styles, and not all of them will necessarily be up your street. When first entering the world of Femdom, all the different styles and titles can be a little daunting and off-putting as you do not know where to start. If you have a variety of needs that is where the Hybrid Mistress just might be what you are looking for! Bottom line: knowing what you are most drawn to will get you closer to finding the perfect Mistress for you.

 

Disciplinarian, Sensual, and More, Oh My…

 

I feel like when people first find themselves exploring the world of femdom, this is what they think of. The boots, canes, whips, paddles, and spanking, and perhaps getting verbal cues of ones inadequacy. While the disciplinarian style of femdom is a very traditional approach, this isn’t the only Mistress type or style of femdom. In fact it’s just the tip of the iceberg. How do you know this is the type of Mistress to fulfil all those daydreams? Well, if you like being put in your place with words and actions, and having the authority taken away from you. Perhaps you even like the idea of a Mistress playing teacher, then this would be a great place to start.

If the whispers of sweet nothings, skin on skin, ear biting, hair pulling are more your approach, a sensual Mistress is a good fit. The sensual femdom approach is usually less daunting, but no less delicious. It’s less harsh than other styles of femdom. Instead this has the main focus of building the subs need by giving praise and pleasure.  Just like many other female dommes, the sensual will still want to be put on a pedestal and want full control, they just aren’t as demanding of crushing your ego for it. How do you know that this is for you? Are you living for the praise over degradation? Does the idea of sensual touch and lingering sensations make that cock quake? If so, then sensual may be a better route for you.

 

Branching Out and Adding on to The “Standards”

 

If you were to ask most people the types of Mistress that is out there, they’d likely answer with one of the first two types. While they aren’t inherently wrong, there’s more to it. Many people would assume (incorrectly), that in order to be a bondage Mistress, you need to be a disciplinarian. You would be incorrect. While I’ll admit, the latex, leather, chains, ropes, etc. are commonly linked to the Disciplinarian, it can be just as sexy, and load shoot worthy to offer yourself up to your sensual Mistress in this way for praise. How do you know adding bondage in will have you precumming at the thought? Let’s answer these questions: Does a little restriction cause that cock some friction? Do you start to drip and quiver at the idea of restraint? Enough said hehe.

Just like the Bondage Mistress doesn’t have to be a strict, order thrower, a Pleasure Mistress doesn’t always have to be sensual. While being nurtured, your pleasure being their pleasure, and the painless approach may be your bag. You can have a Mistress in control by coercing pleasure. They assume power with the pleasure they give. Manipulating the level of orgasm and how much praise you are worthy of.  Their power comes from being in control of your pleasure and giving you mind-blowing orgasms.

 

This Isn’t Build-A-Bitch, But There are Options for that Perfect Mistress

 

Above I gave examples to mess up the standard thoughts behind cliches of Mistress types. In the end, you know what you are looking for and what turns you on. You will find the Mistress that listens and can mold sessions to closely match your goals and sexual exploration. If you have a need for different types of sessions that is where the Hybrid Mistress may be your best fit! Beyond that, it’s just a matter of what to do with your load if and when you are granted one!

 

Humiliation & Degradation Mistress

 

Humiliation & Degradation "Mistress and Femdom Archetypes"

 

Think: name-calling, spitting, being trampled. In other words, think of the most degrading kink activities and this is what you get. This is for those who are definitely into the psychological side of femdom. A domme who is into humiliation normally gets a real kick out of the power they hold. The bully-esque nature of humiliation means that this style of femdom often attracts dommes who have a playfully bratty side. But please remember name-calling is just that, humiliation requires action on your part! *evil grin*. Imagine being made to go to a physical store and ask for help buying panties or lipstick? That is what action means!

 

No Matter What You Choose!

 

Control is the name of the game for the Mistress! She can be known as Domina, Humiliatrix, Owner, Mistress. One thing is for sure you will submit! If you think hanging on to control best suits you, then you are denying yourself of a pleasure you can not even imagine! Do you dream of being treated like an object, acting as a footstool or having to clean yourself up after you finish? Do you want to be told how worthless you are or encouraged to dress up in embarrassing outfits? Or maybe you need to be nurtured and told that you are a good boy, encouraged to try on that first pair of panties. No matter what it is you are looking for the Hybrid Mistress has something for everyone!

 

Learn to Submit "Mistress and Femdom Archetypes"

 

 

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